Dress the way you feel comfortable. I just spent almost two weeks out in public 24/7 dressed casual feminine which means panties, pantyhose with no socks, light grey sneakers, patterned leggings (I love animal prints and I tucked), womens pastel tees or a pink blouse with designs, girly glass beaded bracelets (I shaved my forearms), big womens sunglasses, a bra with my C cup forms and a color matching scrunchie holding my long natural ponytail. I wore a cute coral colored ball cap. All finished off with carrying a clutch instead of a wallet. My nails were natural and polished a pale pink, toes too but they weren’t exposed. I think this is a version of what most women are wearing today just being casual and I felt I blended in no matter that I’m a big buy in height and build and don’t “pass” but I was so comfortable and natural with what I was wearing I loved it. I didn’t care what others thought. I knew I was having more fun than anyone I met.
Don’t dress slutty or to attract attention but wear what feels good to you and try to blend in and no one will say a word about it. Most are busy with their lives and just don’t really care about you.