There are many places in my area that offer brazilians for men so this wouldn’t be an issue for me. So maybe keep looking for a salon where it wouldn’t be a problem.
I think my waxer is starting to realize that I’m a bit more than I appear as I usually go in after work in drab. This past time though I was in my high waisted femme leggings and a male tank top. When I flipped over for the backside and had to pull my cheeks apart she commented on my long finger nails!! 😄