Just to add to the story.
Once on my way home i called my SO. Her sister was visiting unexpectedly. Me Sister in law does not know about Paula.
I had backed the emergancy tansition bag in the car. I stopped on the way home and changed into guy mode. And got home. The Sister inlaw, Neice and the Husband were all waiting for me to get home to go for dinner.
I am glad i packed the emergancy bag. I don’t normally pack it. Just had a feeling i might need it.