I’m not sure I have anything extra to add as I grew into my adult crossdressing with my ex’s full support. We traversed the various changes and potential issues together… yes, she was my best supporter ever!
Then, one day, out of the blue, she asked me to leave! I later discovered that the girl of my life is the ultimate ‘people pleaser’! She did what she thought would please me and make me happy… without the same happiness in herself.
I think the change came when I applied my first oestrogen patch (she even videoed the event). What came later broke my heart but I cannot let that detract from what we had… what I thought we had. I considered myself one of the lucky few with a fabulous, supportive SO… still do.
That said, I cannot possibly imagine the position you find yourself in but you must decide what the most important thing is and run with without looking back!
Hugs 💕🥰 Polly