A misconception fed by TV, film, media, for ever propagating that comment. And with so many things the more people see this implication they believe it must be true. It has seeped into society but I believe the more we ‘out’ ourselves the more society as a whole will see the lie that equates cross dressing with being gay. Why would a man who wants to present with feminine traits be attractive to men who prefer men????
I believe also that the gay community are so much more in touch with their inner femininity that this leads to the conclusion that men who reveal their feminine side must be gay. No no no, good on the gay community for being open like this. It’s just that heterosexual men are afraid to express this side of themselves for fear of being labelled a bit gay! And the brainwashed majority think we must be in denial about our true homosexuality! No no no.
Sexual orientation has nothing at all to do with cross dressing, it is a separate issue, sorry I’m ranting.
I was at a work lunch last week. Most of them know about my cross dressing as I showed up at the Christmas night in a floor length gold sequin gown LOL
But this one woman I was speaking to had left a while ago and knew nothing of my inner Bianca. Probably my fault but the subject got round to cross dressing and I showed her a photo of Bianca. She was silent for a bit then launched into a monologue about one of her friends who’s husband had ALSO came out as being gay!!!!
I bit my tongue.