It makes perfect sense to think that a woman’s crossdressing husband might be gay – in our society, the majority of people behave – whether because of societal influences or their own desires – in a heterosexual manner. I can understand where a woman’s first thought would be that the husband is gay – and if not, where the woman feels they are not up to standards for the man.
I believe that more CDs might be accepting bi-sexual than in society as a whole, but I don’t have any proof of that.
I try only to speak from my experiences, which obviously aren’t the same for all.
You put a lot of thought into all your posts, thanks!