An interesting topic.
Like you I would like to meet other CD’s in my area to be able to socialize and exchange ideas. Recently I thought I may have found a support group that would allow me to do that, however, it was comprised of those that were in the process of transitioning and not what I was looking for.
On possibility that you may want to try is the Member Directory here. You can search for others by location to see if there is anyone near you. I tried that and found that there are some ladies near me. I haven’t reached out to anyone yet as I am a bit nervous, but that is my nature.