Hi seleena nice to meet you and so happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy your self here .. As a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. So sorry for wifes reluctance to support you Just dont fret girlfriend as keep the lines of comunifications open between you both .. Many girls here have supportive wifes as me included there since marrage back 39 years ago .. If it would help ?? we have a group here for wifes and significant others to help with questions she might have and can ask many gg ladies as her self that we have no access to just them if you think she might be intrested in this it could help.. Good luck girl and hope to see you around for a chat sometime..