Reply To: Do you keep your male and female personalities separate?

[Marg Produe]

Marg and my legacy (name) self are still somewhat co-joined.  It doesn’t bother me but is just something that is a part of the whole me as an intersex person.  I think of it as like working for a company for 30 years and then leaving and going into another different job for another 30 years.  Two different skill sets in the same individual that are compartmentalized yet sometimes used together to a great advantage.  My personalities aren’t really separate.  It’s  just that I have two different tool boxes (Male + Female) and I select the tool that seems best for the job at hand although one toolbox gets much more use than the other.  I hope this makes some sense.  Marg