Being labeled as a strictly fetish girl gets you ostracized by a large segment of the community. I was very close friends with a very conservative pre op TS and she told me that to most TS girls I was seen as the scum of the earth. The girls who thought of me that way never once spoke to me to get to know me.
The argument I hear is that real girls don’t dress that way. Of course real girls wear fetish wear. It is sexy. There is a reason pop stars like Britney Spears and Ariana Grande have a wardrobe of Latex and PVC wear.