I have mixed feelings as I’m sure you do about your SO’s response. On the one hand, that is a gift horse you do not want to look in the mouth, often a partner will just walk out once that sort of secret is revealed. On the other… well, she obviously wants Saleena at arms’ length, as well as some restrictions on your ability to express yourself online. If it were me I would do my best to honor her wishes even if you don’t understand them.
Either way know that you have a multitude of likeminded sisters here, many far wiser than myself, so if you find yourself in need of guidance, fashion advice, or even just casual conversation, don’t be afraid to raise your voice.