Reply To: No SO. Curse or blessing

[Heather Wannabe]

I voted “Even Mix” because having a SO involved would be  a blessing, but if she wasn’t into it like you hope, then it could be a curse.  I wish I could share Heather with my SO, but I’d also have expectations of what I hope the relationship would be.  Any time I’ve had expectations, I’m always disappointed, so keeping Heather to myself is safer.