It’s a slippery slope saying one isnt married when dressed enfemme.
I know I will tread on toes. I do not care that I do. Marriage is a great sacred union. (Divorce does happen. I’m included. )
I have seen too many make excuses about their alt ego not being married and therefore they flirt, talk dirty, meet up with others yada yada making excuses that the one doing it isn’t married to their wife. (And the dresser then goes off big time when eventually caught.)
A common complaint among the cd community is their wife doesn’t accept their dressing. Maybe. Just maybe. If the CDer proved to their wife they were 100% trustworthy and had their back no matter what, the wife would be more accommodating.
If you watch porn, your cheating on your marriage. If you flirt with others, your cheating on your marriage. If your wanking and fantasizing about sex outside the marriage your cheating on the marriage.
Every time you cheat on the marriage you destroy the sacred trust and union between you both.
If you want a strong marriage. Be proud of your marriage status and declare it to the world, dressed or not.
Anyways. I’ll step down from my soapbox now.