I live in Raleigh, and have in the distant past visited Legends Nightclub downtown (not en femme though). I seems to be the most accepting place around as you can imagine, since they have drag shows almost exclusively.
I wish I could say that I can join you, but there is some baggage:
– would be my 1st time out
– I have an understanding spouse, but we mutually agree that she isn’t ready to meet Wendy, therefore getting ready at the house is not an option.
My wife and I will be out of town on an extended trip through July, but on the change we can put something together later this year, I’ll snoop around and see if there are any TG-friendly places (heck the last micro-brewery had a male employee in a nice flouncy cotton skirt, so there may well be many places here right under my nose).
Cheers! Let’s stay in touch,