I fully agree with you. The clothes that one chooses to wear or not to wear does not define who she may be as a person. I dress as I wish which usually means feminine attire. I wear a bra daily for support and comfort, as much as desire. Through it all, I make no effort to hide the proud man that I am. I can also share from experience that most people could care less. I have received compliments both for my outfits as well as my courage to be me. That being said, I say be you, and be proud.