happened when I was 14. my older brother walked in on me as I was putting on a bra. will never forget the expression on his face as I made up a story about a halloween party (in the spring?!). his shock turned to derisive laughter and he told me, “Stop trying to feed me bullshit.”
couple days later some of my friends no longer wanted to be around me. guess he told someone. about a week later he told me that mom had found my stuff and I needed to get rid of it before dad found out. I did.