This is the conundrum and it is such a profound one for us. There are positive and negatives either way; the thrills and fears of secrecy, and the freedom and fears of being ‘out’. Personally, I don’t feel the need to walk to the shops wearing my favourite frock but I would love to have the choice. I really admire those with the guts to do so.
PS. Speaking as a 55 year old, you’re still a young whippersnapper. Oh, to have started at your age!