In the words of the tired old cliche, “too late she cried!!” I’m well into my 70;s and Caty has been a vital, integral, part of me for at least the last 50 years.
I also have strongly maintained over a lot of those years that the “femme side” of me has made it easy to become close friends with quite a few genetic “GG”s”. One in particular has been as good as a formal brother/ sister relationship
Cant get much closer than that.