I think you’ve raised some valid points. Occasional posts/discussions here that center around transgenderism have gotten a tad tense in the past.
And about that “journey”. Many girls on CDH believe that being a crossdresser is their final destination, and that’s okay. But for the rest of us, the road map is not in “black & white”.
That’s what CDH is all about in my humble opinion.
I have found myself revisiting my profile and considering new options. Who knows where I’ll end up. To paraphrase the famous Bugs Bunny, “I knew I should have taken that left turn in Albuquerque!”