I hear ya, Martina!
My best chats here or elsewhere are always in a private chat room where the official restrictions, like politics, religion and other um… things are ignored. Ahem…
Here at CDH I’ve become close to a few sisters and they’re cool, fun, considerate, caring, and a riot!
But, I think private chats require payment. I forked over some coin for that privilege and I have no regrets! Keeping a website going isn’t cheap and if some of my money goes to promote our way of life then I’m good.