I decided to pierce my ears at 48 1/2 years old.
I mentioned it to my wife, she was ok with it. At the time that I decided to do it, all of the shops that did that work were closed(Covid).
So, I ordered a set of self piercing kits from Amazon, and asked the Mrs to do it. She was thrilled!
Having here take part and be the one to do the job made it fun for her and I believe she felt more involved with this side of me. She loves getting to tell people that she got to do them.
I love having them pierced. I usually have at least studs in at all times. I found some cute gender neutral black studs that have screw on backs. These are super comfortable to sleep in if you don’t feel like taking them out.
Hope that helps,