That’s a very good question. I realized young that I could never have a relationship with a normal woman. I only dated women who were much more open minded than the average American female who has been raised to value bland boring normalcy. Women who are more open minded are degraded and called all kinds of vile names in American society.
I was engaged twice and both times it was with women who were attracted to me as Barbie. I think if you are a CD and marry a normal woman you are just setting yourself up for major problems. It’s not just CD’s who have this problem. Any man with some harmless fetish faces the same dilemma.
The number one thing any dominatrix will hear from her clients is, “If my wife knew she would divorce me”. I do believe that if you have to stop being yourself to keep a relationship then it never was based on anything real to begin with.