Hi Holly, boy you do come up with some good ones girl. When my two boys were heavily involve in competitive sports I was unable to dress completely as a female for 20 years and I was miserable and not very nice to be around (usually). Having been through that I can say with out a doubt that it would be impossible for me to remove Trish from my life permanently. I would not want a divorce either because even though at best she tolerates my crossdressing I still love her. Hence my vote “I would find a way to make it work.