Of course I would stop. Giving up my little hobby, guilty pleasure or what ever you want to call it is not worth destroying a great relationship on so many other levels.
With that said though, my wife met Patty a couple of weeks after we met. She was stunned at how pretty and sexy patty was and how different I looked. That first day we went out shopping as girl friends. After that we often went out and did different things as girl friends.
Every Friday I would get dressed and go pick her up at college. Then we would have our weekly girl’s night out.
So Patty has been part of our life from the beginning.