Reply To: Would you stop crossdressing if you wife asked, to save your marriage, or other?

[Rhonda Lee]

My situation was somewhat the same, aside from the fact that my wife left me after 40 years of marriage. I did not tell her earlier because I did not know myself. She returned a year later on condition that she could accept that I would not change. A year after that she did a 180, leading to divorce. I do think that if someone is willing to commit to a marriage with full knowledge of the situation or they at some subsequent point confront the situation and decide to accept it, they should remain committed. The vows should count for something.