Reply To: Do you ever get treated like

[Darcy Grigsby]

I am always willing to help someone who I see struggling, but I always ask first.

If it is a male I ask because I don’t want to make them feel weak or incapable. I know in male mode I can be more than a little prideful.

If it is a female I ask because I know what vulnerability feels like and I would want her to feel safe before I jumped in and just helped.