The cacophony of noisy places plus adding in stress (being late, can’t finding where to go, or trying to make a decision) shuts me down frequently. My wife and I have a signal for when that happens and we will silently move out of the rush so I can calm down or she will allow me to excuse myself while she handles things. She prefers this over me just telling everyone “this way!!!” as I march us off making decisions for everyone on the fly.🤣
I have yet to experience this while being Darcy.