I’ve had several male partners who were not attracted to me in girl mode.
They wanted nothing to do with Jenny in bed, not even something “small” like me in panties or thigh highs. 🙁
Ultimately, those were relationship killers for me. Plenty of fish in the ocean! 🙂 Which I would also say to any wife who does not want a CD husband. Why torture yourself? Part company and go fish somewhere else.