I do nothing to draw attention to myself, that is, depending on who is defining the meaning of “attention.”
For example, I do sometimes show what I believe is a modest amount of cleavage, and I sometimes wear particular skirts above my knee. Fishnet pantyhose with seams up the back are a favorite of mine too. I also love hair ornaments, such as flowers and large bows in the back of my hair. Some persons may consider items such as this “drawing attention to yourself,” whereas I do not.
Many decades ago, when I was very much younger, I wore tight low cut tops, short skirts, and very high heels. I was considered very effeminate, hung out with girls and got lots of attention, without making any effort. My dressing was not intentional, because that was the way all the girls my age were dressing at that time, when we went out together.