Hey Carmen. Yeah, I do see where you are coming from. Officially i would classify myself as trans-feminine/gender, and happily tell anyone who listens. And I do realize I will never “pass” completely. Took me some time to realize thats not as important as whats inside my head. I am “me” regardless of my dress, so some may see me as…. what? “Gay”, “Sissy”, “Femboy” (ugh), …Effeminate? Cant help that unless they ask me, and then I would set ’em straight. ( no pun intended ).
The one thing you mentioned that raised my eyebrow was the line ” look like a cd/trans “. Not sure what that look is, but I think i understand what you were trying to say – (not look like someone trying to pass as a birth female?). I will say I have seen great looking transwomen who cannot be told apart from Birth Females at a glance, or at several glances. – I say birth female because I HATE the inaccurate term cis-woman.
But, i will echo… “hi, I’m Stevie, and I am transgender”. Quite comfortable with that. Of course I would rather have been born female (felt that since a little kid), and not have to say anything!! 🙂
Stevie
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