Well all you ladies, I don’t know how far out I am. In Church this last week we had coffee and bars after and of course I was in my male mode, but I have way to much fem showing. My long hair was tied back (but I had just gotten it colored purple) and my finger nails were long lavender. One lady came up to me and asked what my preferred pronouns were. Looking back I should have pushed it to find out how far I could push the Cassie side of me.