I have a group of girl friends and over the years have listened to their experiences and opinions about men – even the ones they marry. In general they don’t embellish what they say to men but go for the inadequacies or faults. It can be quite hilarious as generally they can see through all the crap and read them like a book. It is surprising how many get hit on by men but are more than capable of putting them down and make them know in no uncertain terms that they are NOT available or interested. They will embellish the story to put a man off.