Gave hints to my crossdressing to my SO, of 44 yrs, but only recently (1 yr) ago did she realize the strong desire to dress. I went to counseling alone for short time, realized it was ok, have no desire to transition. We’re going to couples counseling, to try to communicate better, even go as Ginger occasionally. She accepts dressing to a degree, actually impressed by my fashion awareness. She’s not into social media, so on CDH only when she’s busy, so as not to ignore her. Wish she would use this understand and talk with SO’s. Know ur not alone.