I think “inexperienced amateurs to… hide and gather” as the reason for meeting CD groups could be somewhat inaccurate. I’m considered a newbie and have never gone out in CD groups, but I’d go to be part of a community event of partying with likeminded CDs, not because I’m trying to hide.
In terms of passing, I’ve gone out since the first day I wanted to try dressing, and began socializing and passing as a woman that very first day with a multitude of people. I’ve enhanced that craft, and go out to every event, every public situation a person can put themselves in, and pass 100% as a cis-woman. The only situation I can think of that would get me clocked as “trans” or “cd” would be if I wanted a man to reach his hands down my pants. Up until that point, everybody sees me cis, even in long social conversation in the middle of a casino bar with 10 men circling around me all talking at once.
I definitely don’t blend in, and that’s on purpose. I get hit on by men literally ever 10 minutes throughout the day, no matter what I’m doing, and a walk from my car through the parking lot to get in the store I’d be lucky if I didn’t get hit on at least 3 times, both entering AND leaving.
I have no intent on hiding when en femme, and definitely still a newbie.
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