It sure is stressful at times like that! I wash my girly clothes by hand in our downstairs bathroom, and hang them in a corner of the basement where my wife seldom goes. There is always the chance I will be discovered.
I’m hoping to come out to my wife soon though. Hopefully it won’t be forced because she found my panty stash!
Best of luck to you Becka! It can be tough being a closet girl!