It’s taken a long time to get where we’re at with a lot of communication. There have been ups and downs along the way, much like riding a roller coaster. Take it one day at a time and have open communication. Probably the most difficult part for me was knowing when to bring it up and when not to. I usually waited for her to bring it up until recently when she brought it up and said she is more accepting of my dressing.
Best of luck with your journey.