I know I am late to the party, but I wanted to take a minute and respond.
Yes, absolutely there are good days and bad days! I think the bad days are when I feel left out or like communication isn’t open. If you didn’t know from the beginning that your SO participates in CD trust can be so hard. Especially if you found out on accident. So, there are definitely triggers in each unique relationship that can lead to bad days. The thing is that in any relationship that is true.
Hugs to you, Ang