Reply To: Guidance for my wife

[DeeAnn Hopings]

To paraphrase,

You can lead a horse to water,
But you cannot make them think.

There are various mechanisms to help spouses, such as a private area on sites like this, separate and parallel support groups as a part crossdresser/transgender support groups, therapy services, separate and couple sessions during gatherings like Fantasia Fair, etc. However, the key point is that one must want to avail themselves of such things…