I dress each morning before my wife wakes up so I can make her coffee and see her off to work. Then I spend my day doing housework, baking, watching my soaps, and getting dinner ready. I make sure I’m freshened up when she comes home and we have dinner and watch tv or read. I wear a nightgown to bed and start all over the next day! I’m in male mode if we go out, if friends or family are over to visit, or if she directs it (which she never does).