When I started dressing more seriously, I found this site, but I purged almost immediately and deactivated my account. When I wanted to start dressing again I came back. For me, this website goes hand in hand with dressing and purging.
Several ladies here have expressed the feeling that they didn’t feel like they belong. I feel like that all the time, here and just about everywhere. I don’t ever feel like I truly “belong” anywhere. I don’t say this to complain, but to remind us that we can still have good friendships and enjoy things, even if some mythical emotional state never develops. I generally feel like my thoughts and attitude about dressing aren’t quite like everyone else’s, but I still enjoy coming here and seeing outfit ideas and chatting from time to time. I like to share my pictures and try to look as good as some of you. So, even if I don’t quite belong, thank you all for being here, and being accepting.