This is a great point. Passable and looking good are two different things. I didn’t think about that.
I was primarily thinking about how confident we feel. I hoped maybe if we shared a bit, we’d be able to be more confident and comfortable. Probably all of us have been excited to get dressed up, then put on the outfit we’ve been dreaming about all week, only to be discouraged by how we looked. I think if we recognize that all of us feel this way sometimes, it might make it easier.