I feel like that often. Sometimes I get dressed up and feel wonderful, other times I put on a much planned and waited for outfit and am sorely disappointed. We all go through that. Developing skill as a cross dresser helps with this. Being physically healthy is important to. Fitness and self care is an important part of feeling good. It’s also true that learning to accept yourself is essential. Even when we want to improve, the best way to make positive and healthy improvement is by first accepting yourself where you are.
So, yes, the feeling goes away, but it usually takes some work, both physical and emotional. It’s also important to accept that ups and downs in our emotional state are normal to a degree, and cross dressing can magnify that. There’s no shame in seeking out counseling or other kinds of help if you need it.
One thing about it, people here are pretty accepting. Wherever you’re at, there’s someone here that can understand.
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