Welcome Bobbie. As others have already said you are in the right place, we are ALL OVER the place from the closeted CD to those are getting the surgeries. if you would go back 4 years I would say those that crossdressed were weird. Today I am dresses in fem almost 24/7 inside my home, have come out to family, to some at work, and even to some at my Church. I just turn 68 myself and had my nails done for my birthday –I LOVE my long red nails. You find where you are comfortable. Everyone is so helpful and understanding here. the forums are great you can learn so much and don’t hesitate to ask questions.