It’s great your both going shopping together for things for him. My wife and I have done things a few times and at first is was a little confusing and that’s why she suggested I have a cd name as we were shopping for both of us. I would hold something up to show her and say “ I think Ashley would like this”. This way she knew if it was meant for me or her.
I agree with Emily and would like to be wearing maybe woman’s jeans and top and some light makeup and perfume as long as your ok with being out with hubby dressed like this. The sales associates are normally great when knowing your shopping for femme things so if your both up to it let them know.