In terms of an actual gift, my ex made me a pair of clip-on earrings made from silver jump rings.
But she unintentionally gave me a lot more. When we were having trouble in the marriage, she asked me to stop dressing, which I did for a time. But despite wanting big changes, I asked her for something small and inconsequential just to see if she was willing to put in the effort. When she couldn’t even make an inconsequential change (not forgetting, but making excuses), I decided there was no reason to keep my end of the bargain. Shortly after that, I had my first makeover and first outing as Alison, an event that changed my life. The genie was out of the bottle and wasn’t going back in. Within 6 months I was regularly attending events en femme. If she put an effort in, I might not be here today
Between her tossing clothes in the garbage and leaving unwanted clothes behind when she moved out, she unintentionally gave me a few items that I still wear today.
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