Reply To: Have you / Do you Flip Flop over it all?

[Imannn]

Hi Stevie😀 thank you for asking this question, it means alot to me. I flip flop often in my head, its been just under a year since i found out about my partners CD and it definitely took me longer than I’d like to admit to accept it and not feel a form of personal guilt or anxiety towards it. I first had to come to terms with the fact that this is my partners choice, a choice made decades before we ever met, a choice that has nothing to do with me and his feelings for me. That was the easy part (if i can say ‘easy’ lol). I flip flop because as much as I’ve accepted everything (i mean how can i not) its still a difficult thing for me to understand. The reasoning behind it for my SO and the emotions he has tied to it. We’re a young couple, i want nothing more than to grow old with my SO. Being so inlove with my SO yet not feeling like i fully understand him at times causes my flip flops.