I feel like it’s only a matter of time before I’m in your same situation. I think I’m clandestine enough, but I might be fooling myself. The main reason I’ve stayed married for the last few years is for healthcare. That need is going away. I hope you have good legal counsel that is qualified with today’s LGBTQ+ issues. I hope I can find the same.
Thank you. My attorney is very versed in the “alternate lifestyles” and was recommended by the couples /sex therapist my wife and I used to see. The therapist, knowing my wife and situation, said I need to be prepared for her to use every intimate knowledge against me and that she would be likely to fabricate stories as well. And that is exactly what is happening.