Congratulations on having that conversation with your wife and her response to you telling her.
When I told my wife it was a bit rough at first but over time she came to accept my dressing to a point. When I first told her she asked if I was gay/bi, to which I told her I didn’t think so. She also said that had she known she wouldn’t have married me and that she felt betrayed and lied to. Since then we’ve had many conversations and she has become more accepting. It is a process and there will be ups and downs.
I wish you the best and hope she continues to have increased acceptance.