Reply To: Should I or shouldn’t I say anything

[J J]

Of course there are a lot of variables, and is unique to your situation. If it is just a quiet thing between you and your wife, like me, then no need to tell them. If you want to be out some around the house , and your wife is good with that, then yes, tell the kids. No it will not scar them. Kids deal with these thing so well if given the chance.