Reply To: How many of you have or have not gone out dressed femme and why?

[Thea]

I had such plans to have been out by now:  but since telling my SO things have got worse not better.  Perhaps that’s unfair: complicated might be a better word.  She is frightened that me going out will be a wonderful experience for me and I’ll just need to do it more and more.  And of course it’s very difficult for me to be honest and say that wouldn’t happen.  I am realizing I really am some way along the trans spectrum, and my wife is just barely (!) coming to terms with me crossdressing.  All plans on hold for the moment…but the more I try to suppress Thea (that is Me!) the more difficult things get…

Hugs Thea